Should I Play It Cool?

I was recently asked a question about making the first moves on a girl a guy liked… you’ll love this.

“I’m 21 years old and a junior in college. There is a freshman girl that I like and I see her 4 days out of the week in Japanese class.
The very first day of class i noticed that she looked around, then gave a slight glance around the room and sat next to me. She then began randomly talking to me.
So I thought to myself that maybe she is interested in me.
We began to exchange phone numbers and begin talking a bit everyday. But she usually only contact me when she needs help with school.
We hung out a couple times for non related school reasons which was very fun. I believe she is very much like me.
I tutored her in both math and Japanese before. She thinks I’m very smart (in science and math) and always smiles at my jokes.
Then I began to think that she liked me as well. She text me everyday before class about school related stuff but she can find all the information on the class online, so I thought she was finding an excuse to talk to me.
Then after one day of tutoring math, she offered to take me out to dinner and pay for me. I thought she was just repaying me or possibly interested in me. During dinner we talked a lot and we asked each other what we were doing after dinner.
We decided to go to my room and watched a scary movie. Then at the end of the movie I pulled a big no no. I told her I liked her and I wanted to make a move but I really valued our friendship. She said do I usually tell a girl I like her, and I said that no, just this time because I was afraid to make a move and make thinks awkward without asking her first. She said she is talking with some guy as of now, and knows him the same amount of time as she knows me. Which is two months.
She said he was cute and she likes him. Then I told her why I liked her and she said she never knew that I liked her. And she is unsure about how she feels about me. I said I will still like to be friends and she agrees. But then she says, let’s take this slow and see where things go.
Then she said she didn’t want to walk back herself since we just watched a scary movie. I offered to walked her back and she was really happy.
When we got to her dorm I said good night and she said can I get a hug at least, and gave her a hug.
And she hasn’t contact me since then which is about 2 days so far. What should I do? I have been thinking about it a lot. Should I just play it cool as a friend and flirt slowly and then make a move on her? I don’t know, please help me.”

This guy has been given the world by a girl…. and he’s wondering if he needs to “make a move” on her?

You know that just by waiting so long (two months) that she’s losing interest in him every second that he doesn’t do something… anything.

This is an Attraction Killer a lot of guys make… they wait too long and the girl loses interest. Then, before you know it, she’s dating someone else.

Guys let this be a lesson for you to “Close with a kiss as soon as possible”.
It’s better to be shut out of the kiss than be scared to make that first move.
Like this guy above, what is he waiting for? Snow in summer? A green light? A lot of green lights?

Move in like you’re going to whisper in her ear, turn your head and give her a peck on the lips…. And don’t wait two months to do it because she’ll certainly tire of waiting for you.

And for goodness sakes, don’t TELL her you love her, show her… kiss kiss.

Trust me.